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mahalo i ka wahine akamai
Ua lilo nā wāhine haipule i nā tausani makahiki i wahine hanohano a maikaʻi i wehewehe ʻia ma ka ʻōlelo ma ka mokuna 3.1,10-31 ua wehewehe ʻia e nānā ʻia ma ke ʻano he kūpono. ʻO Maria, ka makuahine o Iesu Kristo, ʻo ia paha ke kuleana o ka wahine pono i kākau ʻia i kona hoʻomanaʻo mai kona wā ʻōpiopio. Akā, pehea ka wahine o kēia wā? He aha ka waiwai o kēia mele kahiko i ka nānā ʻana i nā ʻano like ʻole a paʻakikī o ka nohona o nā wahine hou? Ma luna o nā wāhine male, nā wāhine hoʻokahi, nā'ōpiopio, nāʻelemakule, nā wāhine hana ma waho o ka home a me nā wāhine hale, nā wāhine me nā keiki a me nā keikiʻole? Inā mākou e nānā pono i ke kiʻi maikaʻi o ka Baibala kahiko o ka wahine, ʻaʻole mākou e ʻike i ka hiʻohiʻona clichéd o ka wahine hale, ʻaʻole hoʻi i kahi wahine ʻoihana paʻakikī, ʻoi aku ka makemake nui i haʻalele i kona ʻohana e mālama iā ia iho. Akā, hālāwai mākou me kahi wahine ikaika, hanohano, akamai a aloha i kū nona iho. E nānā kākou i nā hiʻohiʻona o kēia wahine kupaianaha - he kumu hoʻohālike no nā wāhine Kalikiano o kēia wā.
He wahine akamai - ʻo wai ka mea e loaʻa iā ia?
"ʻO ka mea i hāʻawi ʻia i ka wahine kūpono, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o nā momi waiwai nui" (verse 10). ʻAʻole kūpono kēia wehewehe ʻana i ke kiʻi kūpono o ka wahine i nā manaʻo o ka poʻe e hoʻohālikelike i ka wahine me ka nāwaliwali a me ka passivity.
"E hilinaʻi ka naʻau o kāna kāne iā ia, a ʻaʻole ia e nele i ka meaʻai" (verse 11). Hiki i kāna kāne ke hilinaʻi i kona kūpaʻa, kūpaʻa a me ka hilinaʻi. ʻO kā lākou ʻike noiʻi a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana e hoʻonui i ka loaʻa kālā o ka ʻohana.
"Ua aloha ʻo ia iā ia a ʻaʻole loa e hōʻeha iā ia i kona ola a pau" (veesi 12). ʻAʻole hana pono kēia wahine i ka wā maʻalahi a loaʻa kālā. He ʻano paʻa kona, hilinaʻi a hilinaʻi.
"Ua hopohopo ʻo ia i ka hulu hipa a me ke olonā a makemake ʻo ia e hana me kona mau lima" (pauku 13). Ua hauʻoli ʻo ia i kāna hana a hoʻolālā ʻo ia i mua no kāna mea e pono ai a laila hoʻokō i kāna mau kuleana me ke aloha.
'Ua like ia me ka moku kalepa; lawe mai lakou i ka lakou ai mai kahi mamao mai” (verse 14). ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia i ka mediocrity a ʻaʻole hilahila i nā ala āpau no ka maikaʻi.
"Ua ala ʻo ia ma mua o ka lā, a hāʻawi i ka ʻai na kona hale, a na nā kauā wahine i kāna ʻāpana" (verse 15). ʻOiai he limahana ko ka wahine i hōʻike ʻia ma ʻaneʻi e hoʻokuʻu iā ia i nā kuleana he nui o ka hale, ua hoʻokō ʻo ia i nā kūlana ponoʻī a mālama pono i kāna mau mea ma lalo o ke ʻano kūpono.
"ʻImi ʻo ia i kahi mahina ʻai a kūʻai mai ia a kanu i ka māla waina me ka hua o kona mau lima" (verse 16). Hoʻohana ʻo ia i kona noʻonoʻo a ʻaʻole hana ma ka makemake, akā kānana ʻo ia i kahi kūlana mai kahi ʻano loiloi ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana a me ka hoʻokō ʻana.
"Ua kaei oia i kona puhaka me ka ikaika a e hooikaika i kona mau lima" (verse 17). Hele kēia wahine i kāna mau hana me ka wiwo ʻole a me ka hoʻolaʻa. Mālama ʻo ia iā ia iho i ke olakino a me ka ikaika, ʻai i ka meaʻai olakino a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana, hāʻawi i ka hoʻomaha kūpono; no ka mea, nui ka poe e hilinai ana ia lakou.
ʻIke ʻo ia i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka waiwai i kāna ʻoihana; ʻAʻole e pio ko lākou mālamalama i ka pō" (verse 18). ʻIke ʻo ia i ka maikaʻi o nā huahana āna e hāʻawi ai. Ma ke kakahiaka a ma hope paha, ʻaʻohe mea e hopohopo no kona nalo ʻana i kāna mau hoʻohiki.
"ʻO ia e ʻō aku i kona lima no ke kaula, a ʻo kona manamana lima e hopu i ka milo" (veesi 19). ʻO kāna kumu hoʻohālike e hōʻike ana i ke akamai a me ka hoʻoikaika. Hana ʻo ia i ka hapa nui o kāna mau makana a hoʻomohala i kona mau mākaukau ma ke aʻo ʻana iā ia iho a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka ʻike i loaʻa iā ia ma ke ʻano noʻonoʻo a mākaukau.
"Ke kikoo aku nei oia i kona lima i ka poe ilihune, a e kikoo aku i kona lima i ka poe nele" (verse 20). Hōʻike ka wahine i hōʻike ʻia ma ʻaneʻi i ke aloha pilikino. Kipa i ka poe mai, hooluolu i ka poe mehameha a me ke kaumaha, a haawi i ka ai i ka poe nele.
«Aole ona makau i ka hau nona iho; no ka mea, ua ʻaʻahu huluhulu kona hale a pau” (pauku 21). ʻO kāna mau hana, ʻo ia ka hoʻolako ʻana i kona ʻohana me nā lole. Hana maikaʻi ʻo ia a hoʻolālā i mua.
Hana ia i mau pale lole nona iho; he lole lino maikaʻi a he poni kona ʻaʻahu” (veesi 22). Loaʻa iā ia nā kūlana kiʻekiʻe a me nā lole e like me ka manawa.
"Ua ʻike ʻia kāu kāne ma nā ʻīpuka, ke noho ʻo ia me nā lunakahiko o ka ʻāina" (pauku 23). ʻAʻole pono kāna kāne e hāʻawi i ka hapalua o kona manawa no ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia o ka home, a ʻo kona kūleʻa ʻana i ke kaiāulu e pili pū ana i kāna kākoʻo - e like me kāna kūleʻa ʻana i kāna kākoʻo.
"Hanaʻo ia i ka lole a kūʻai aku; hāʻawiʻo ia i kāʻei i ka mea kūʻai" (pauku 24). ʻO ka wahine i hōʻike ʻia ma ʻaneʻi e hoʻokele i kāna ʻoihana ponoʻī mai ka home. Me kona hooikaika ana a me ka hooikaika ana, hoonui i ka loaa o ka ohana.
"ʻO ka ikaika a me ka hanohano kona ʻaʻahu, a e ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia i ka lā e hiki mai ana" (verse 25). ʻAʻole wale ʻo ia e pōmaikaʻi i kāna mau hana akamai a me ka naʻauao i kēlā me kēia lā; ʻo ia kekahi o nā pōmaikaʻi a me nā uku no ka wā lōʻihi.
"Oaka ae la oia i kona waha ma ka naauao, a ma kona alelo ke ao maikai ana" (verse 26). He ʻike a heluhelu maikaʻi ʻo ia. ʻIke ʻo ia i kāna mea e kamaʻilio nei. Ma nā ʻōlelo ʻoihana, ʻo kā lākou mau waiwai pilikino a i ʻole ko lākou manaʻo i nā hanana honua.
"Ua mālama ʻo ia i kona hale iho a ʻai ʻo ia i kāna berena ʻaʻole me ka palaualelo" (verse 27). Hoʻonohonoho maikaʻi a ikaika hoʻi ʻo ia, hoʻolaʻa ʻo ia iā ia iho i kāna mau hana.
"Ku aʻe kāna mau keiki a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia, hoʻomaikaʻi kāna kāne iā ia" (verse 28). Hoʻohanohano ʻia ʻo ia ma ka home. ʻAʻole ʻo ia he wahine hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻole e hoʻāʻo e hoʻoluʻolu i kona ʻohana, ʻoiai ke ʻano nui o kāna mau koi.
"He nui na kaikamahine kupono, aka, ua oi aku oe ia lakou a pau" (verse 29). Mahalo i kēia wahine kupaianaha. He kumu hoʻohālike wahine kūpono kēia i nā manawa a pau.
"He mea ole ka nani a me ka nani; he wahine e makau ana ia Iehova e pono ke hoomaikaiia” (veesi 30). Aia ma laila ke kī o ka holomua o kēia wahine. Hoʻoholo ʻia kā lākou mau mea nui e ka makemake o ke Akua, ʻaʻole kā lākou ponoʻī. ʻO kona manaʻo e hana ma ka ʻuhane o ke Akua; ʻaʻole ka manaʻo o ka poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka nani kino a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana he mau ʻano maikaʻi loa ia. Akā, he aha inā inā ʻo ka nani a me ka lokomaikaʻi ka waiwai piha o ka wahine, me ka ʻike ʻana i ka manawa a me nā hoʻāʻo o ke ola e lawe i ko lākou mau pilikia?
"E haawi aku nana i ka hua o kona mau lima, a e mahaloia kana mau hana ma na ipuka." (Pauku 31). Hāʻawi kēia wahine i nā hana e ʻōlelo a ʻaʻole i ka ʻōlelo wale nō. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e kaena i kāna mau hoʻolālā i ka wā e hiki mai ana a i ʻole nā mea i hoʻokō ʻia i hiki iā ia ke kuhikuhi.
ka pilina o ka wahine me ke Akua
Aia ka ikaika o kekahi wahine ma ke mele a i ʻole ke kiʻi kiʻi. Aia paha kekahi ma ka home ma ka makemakika, ke aʻo ʻana, a i ʻole ka ʻoihana. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o nā mana a me nā mea hoʻolālā ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. ʻOiai ua ʻike ʻia kekahi e ko lākou waiwai o nā manaʻo, ʻoi aku ka mākaukau o kekahi e hana i kahi mea i hoʻokumu ʻia i ka ʻike i hoʻokō ʻia. ʻAʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma nā wahi āpau.
ʻO ka puʻuwai o kēia kiʻi ʻo ka pilina o ka wahine me ke Akua, ʻaʻole kona mana kūikawā a i ʻole kona kūlana male. Ua ʻike ka wahine i hōʻike ʻia ua huki ʻo ia i kona ikaika mai ke Akua mai, me ka nānā ʻole i kāna mau makana maoli a i ʻole ma o kāna mau mea i loaʻa me kāna mau hana.
ʻO ka wahine i hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia ma ka ʻŌlelo 31, ʻaʻole ia e hōʻike i kahi koi hiki ʻole; He kūlana akua ia - a mākou e kapa ai i kēia lā "e like me Kristo". Pono kēia mau pauku e hoʻoikaika iā mākou e mahalo i kona kūpaʻa, ka hilinaʻi o kāna kāne, a me ka mālama ʻana i kāna ʻano hana, ikaika, a me kona lokomaikaʻi. Ua hoʻoikaika ʻia kona puʻuwai, manaʻo, a me kona kino e kona hoʻolaʻa ʻana i ke Akua no kona ʻohana a me nā kuleana āna i hāʻawi mai ai iā ia. Hoʻololi nā ʻano moʻomeheu, akā ʻaʻole i nalowale ka ʻuhane o kēia wahine i nā kenekulia. E like me ʻoe, e ka makamaka heluhelu, e hahai i kā lākou hiʻohiʻona a me ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ke ola e puka mai ana mai ko lākou manaʻoʻiʻo, e hoʻopōmaikaʻi nui ʻia ʻoe a he pōmaikaʻi no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
na Sheila Graham
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